But the Lord said to Samuel, “Don’t judge by his appearance or height, for I have rejected him. The Lord doesn’t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
1 Samuel 16:7
Most people are quite judgemental. They have positive preconceptions of those who are skinny, good-looking, and drive a nice car. Whereas, people have a negative preconception of those who are overweight, are not as good looking, and may drive an average car. This results in some people being lonely and rejected, while others have an abundance of friends and are celebrated. It’s the rare person who is humble, non-judgemental, and loves people because they look to their heart rather than their outside appearance. So many people miss out on knowing some of the best people for these reasons.